Lessons learned from a lifetime of coaching
By Wilbur Braithwaite
- Questionable, unsportsmanlike tactics employed to influence the odds of
winning are never worth the price paid in loss of self-respect.
- Degrading remarks or actions aimed at spurring players on to greater
efforts may bring temporary success but results in long-range failure.
- Anger is a poor substitute for reason.
- Your players tend to become what they believe you think they are.
- Teenagers, by nature, are idealistic.
- Attitudes such as jealousy and discontent among players are often nurtured
by well-meaning adults whose eyes are set only upon the glamorous aspects of
winning.
- Patience and love are the most powerful tools in coaching.
- Today's heartbreaks turn into tomorrow's strengths.
- Gracefully accept unfortunate events beyond your control.
- Work hard to influence the outcome of important things within your
control.
- Never "second-guess" yourself on decisions made with integrity,
intelligence and with a glance from the heart.
- The most essential thing in coaching, and a coach's greatest challenge, is
to teach players to never give up.